Sunday, 6 July 2014


The word alone sends chills down your spine let alone the feel.......

Betrayal as we know it is as old as man. It's the act of being hurt by a loved one. Not just hurt, but damaged at a high rate.

In all cases it is connectional, it’s always from someone we love and respect a lot. Someone we put our lives in their hands, someone we trust to be there when the whole world is against us. But the truth be told, BETRAYAL is always pre-planned.

At some point we’ve been betrayed or we’ve betrayed someone, need not be told that it’s the worst experience and some people never get over it.
We’ve seen mental cases that linked back to betrayal.

Betrayal brings a sense of lost, intense mental anguish, denial, hurt, if not handled properly it could lead to death.

We  have to try not to cause permanent damage to peoples emotions and soul and if you have, try to make amends. Things might never be the same, but you’ll make amends  and an apology goes a long way....

Think about it, the lady you left at the altar, the guy you lied to, the family member you disappointed and a lot of others you made cry. 
The time is now...

Sunday, 29 June 2014


This was the second time she was snapping at me for things not serious, I feel over familiarity has begin to set in.

Am I being too nice? why does he make me feel like he is doing me a favour by being my friend?

This and many more crosses the mind of people being taken for granted by their loved ones. In a few cases people take others for granted not because they don’t like them or because they love them less. Its just an unconscious act being done over and over again towards someone close to them. “She’ll always be there”, “He’ll come back begging”, “she doesn’t have a choice she’ll be back”.

These are the thoughts that run in their heads, but am here to say to you that those are the worst things you could ever say to someone who cares and puts you first in choice making.
Not until we lose them or turn them into mean or less emotional people we don’t stop pushing them. Its so sad to know alot of people have changed their standards due to the fact that someone somewhere they love took them for granted or made them look stupid at some point.

Take a deep breath, look around and see that person’s attention you’ve been abusing or their love you keep throwing to the dust it's time to make amends.

Put that call through NOW!!!

Monday, 9 December 2013


Today I want to talk about a word we don't hear much anymore... 


Its not what i call a modern word, people hear the word "sacrifice" and they become afraid that something will be taken from them or they'll have to give up something they can't leave without.

"Sacrifice'' to them means loss, in a world telling us we can have it all. 
  But i believe true sacrifice is victory.

Because it requires our free will to give up something or someone we love for something or someone we love more than yourself.
I won't lie to you it's a gamble.

Sacrifice won't take away the feel of loss but it wins the battle against bitterness.

The bitterness that dims the light on all that is of true value in our lives.
So, go all out and decide on what you want to do for that one person or on that issue...

Wednesday, 13 November 2013

Letting Go..

....Am here again today and am talking about forgiveness....

Some of us are gifted with the spirit of letting things slide while others find it difficult to let the most little things pass.

I know its not easy but what do you do when that is the command giving to us by our Holy books.One of the thorniest and most difficult things we humans are ever called upon to do is to respond to evil with kindness, and to forgive the unforgivable.

 This is a little of the things i have discovered about forgivness.
  • Forgiveness is a choice. When you say, "I can't forgive that person," what you're really saying is, "I'm choosing not to forgive that person." If you say, "I can forgive", you'll find yourself forgiving soon.
  • Keep the following quotes in mind if you're finding it hard to generate positive feelings for the person:
  • "To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you." - Lewis B. Smedes
  • "Those who are the hardest to love, need it the most."
So, let go of that hurt  and leave like it's your last day here on earth plus you'll be doing yourself a great favor...

Tuesday, 12 November 2013


Waow!!!! Waoow!!!

The pace at which young girls are loosing their sanity to NAKEDNESS is alarming and to crown it up they put up pictures on the internet and celebrate the new way of life..

It is safe to say there is nothing left to the imagination and there is nothing hidden under the sun - am sure our guys will be more than happy.
So i ask, what are the churches preaching and what are the moral lessons given by our parents?

Do we say this people had a  troubled childhood or they just choose to go NAKED to attain fame and popularity?

Gradually our society is taking this as a norm and we look at the properly dressed ladies as being too conserved and not sociable.  

Am scared for the upcoming generation,....

In-equility of life

We wake up in the morning complaining of how we didn't wake up well or how we've not gotten the mail from the office or how school is so boring and how you'll trade it for something else. Am sure you know this kids would kill for what you have.

Stop, take a deep breath and look into those things you wish for and ask yourself if they really are what you need or you need a positive attitude towards the one you already have.

I don't know much, but i know life is not equal and that's what makes it all balanced.
i want you to see this through my 'mind'

Thursday, 31 October 2013


You never know the place of friendship in any relationship..
Until you get to that point, where you need to say something  to a friend and you figure you've just been official all along.!

So, put the pride aside, swallow the social difference and make sure you have a true friend to be with you through it all.

Sunday, 8 April 2012

The LOVE for our parents...........

Gone, are the days when parents gave their kids all they needed and wanted also to top the list they made them feel like they made the world move................. Work, Social Life style, Technology has stolen this away from us. Plus the economy is not helping matters.All this and more are the DISTRACTIONS that our parents have at hand.

"Be the change you want to see in the world"