Sunday, 6 July 2014


The word alone sends chills down your spine let alone the feel.......

Betrayal as we know it is as old as man. It's the act of being hurt by a loved one. Not just hurt, but damaged at a high rate.

In all cases it is connectional, it’s always from someone we love and respect a lot. Someone we put our lives in their hands, someone we trust to be there when the whole world is against us. But the truth be told, BETRAYAL is always pre-planned.

At some point we’ve been betrayed or we’ve betrayed someone, need not be told that it’s the worst experience and some people never get over it.
We’ve seen mental cases that linked back to betrayal.

Betrayal brings a sense of lost, intense mental anguish, denial, hurt, if not handled properly it could lead to death.

We  have to try not to cause permanent damage to peoples emotions and soul and if you have, try to make amends. Things might never be the same, but you’ll make amends  and an apology goes a long way....

Think about it, the lady you left at the altar, the guy you lied to, the family member you disappointed and a lot of others you made cry. 
The time is now...

Sunday, 29 June 2014


This was the second time she was snapping at me for things not serious, I feel over familiarity has begin to set in.

Am I being too nice? why does he make me feel like he is doing me a favour by being my friend?

This and many more crosses the mind of people being taken for granted by their loved ones. In a few cases people take others for granted not because they don’t like them or because they love them less. Its just an unconscious act being done over and over again towards someone close to them. “She’ll always be there”, “He’ll come back begging”, “she doesn’t have a choice she’ll be back”.

These are the thoughts that run in their heads, but am here to say to you that those are the worst things you could ever say to someone who cares and puts you first in choice making.
Not until we lose them or turn them into mean or less emotional people we don’t stop pushing them. Its so sad to know alot of people have changed their standards due to the fact that someone somewhere they love took them for granted or made them look stupid at some point.

Take a deep breath, look around and see that person’s attention you’ve been abusing or their love you keep throwing to the dust it's time to make amends.

Put that call through NOW!!!